How to Have a Spa Day at Home

Spa days don’t have to require going out! Having a spa day at home can be the perfect way to relax and rejuvenate yourself.

There are incredible resources and products that you can do right in your own home. And oftentimes spending the money on something now will result in years of use, rather than the one time use you’d get at the spa!

Here’s how to have your very own spa day at home!

How to Have a Spa Day at Home

How to Have a Spa Day at Home

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Step 1: Set the Mood

What you need:

1. Water infused with cucumber or fruit

Infuse water for your spa day

Think about the last time you went to the spa. What made it so relaxing? Often times it’s the environment you’re in!

Most of the time, you’re welcomed with a glass of refreshing water infused with cucumber or fresh fruit. You can do this simply by adding some cut cucumber to a water glass or use one of these fruit pitchers to have an endless supply of cucumber water.

I have one of those pitchers and love to them to feel like I can have “spa day water” all the time!

2. Candles or essential oil + diffuser

Next up, the scent! There’s nothing better than a soft, calming fragrance filing the air when you’re relaxing.

Spas frequently have diffusers with essential oil filling the air in waiting areas and in treatment rooms. Do this yourself with your own essential oil diffuser (I use mine all the time, not just during my DIY spa days!) and some calming scents (I like to mix things like lavender and peace & calming).

Or just light your favorite candle or bring in your favorite reed diffuser into your bathroom!

3. Calming playlist

I like to find a simple “spa playlist” on Spotify or you can turn on whatever music makes you feel relaxed.

4. Robe

Barefoot Dreams Robe

What’s one of the first things you do at a spa? Hop into that locker room and change into one of their cozy robes! No constricting waistbands, no annoying bras, just a comfy robe.

This Barefoot Dreams robe is as comfy and cozy and can be and ideal for your next spa day at home!


Now onto the treatments! Spa like treatments are a necessity for a DIY Spa Day. These can be as simple as a bubble bath with a bath bomb (diy or store bought!) or something more involved like a steamer and mask. Here’s a few ideas to get you started (as well as my personal favorites!).

1. Facial

Are you looking to brighten up your skin? Tackle some wrinkles or pesky acne? Start with a facial!

Facial for a spa day at home
photo cred JAK Beauty

Start with a Steamer

If you have extra time, start out with a steamer! I picked up this simple steamer from Amazon and it’s just about as good as the real thing (or as close I can get to it…).

If you don’t have a steamer you can always create a steam bath by filling a sink with hot water, placing your face close (but not touching) the water with a mask draped over the back of your head draped across the counter to keep the steam in.

Pick a Treatment or Mask

photo cred JAK Beauty

If you’re looking to target wrinkles try out on of these masks:

If you want to clear up acne here’s a few to help with that:

Lastly, here’s just a few simple masks.

If you don’t want to purchase a mask, make your own! Here’s a few to try:

  • Green Tea + Honey Mask Simply seep green tea as you normally would. Cut open the cooled off bags (use 1-2) and mix with honey. Apply to your face and leave on for 15 minutes. Rinse!
  • Banana Yep! Just a banana! Mash it up, apply it to your face and let it sit for 10-15 minutes.
  • Lemon + Oil Mix juice from a lemon with 1/4 cup olive oil. Apply and enjoy!

Follow Up With an Eye Treatment

Here’s a few great options!

Finish With a Good Moisturizer

My everyday moisturizer is L’Occitane’s Shea Light Comforting Cream but I also love Fresh Lotus Anti-Aging Moisturizer. Since you’re saving so much money by not going to the spa you could splurge on La Mer’s Creme de la Mer Moisturizer!

2. Hands + Feet

Do a foot scrub for a DIY spa day

Are your hands or feet dry, cracked and sad looking? Spend a little time on them! A little TLC goes a long way with both your hands and feet.


Give yourself an at home manicure! I have a ton of tips over on this Olive and June post but here’s a few more.

  • File your nails (always do this when they’re dry!).
  • Take off your polish. (If you file your nails while polish is on it’s easier to make them look how you want them to look.)
  • Soak your nails.
  • Push back your cuticles.
  • Use a hand scrub to exfoliate your hands. (Try the Asutra Dead Sea Scrub from Amazon!)
  • Moisturize with a nice hand cream. (I love Aveda’s hand relief moisturizer)
  • Wipe your nails with polish remover (this gives them a clean slate).
  • Apply your polish (if you’re not using something like Olive and June with the base coat already in it then start with a base coat).
  • Finish with a top coat.
  • Clean up edges.
  • Let dry!
black and white manicure


If you’re anything like me, you don’t give your feet the attention they deserve. Pedicures follow many of the same steps as a manicure. Here they are!

  • File your nails (again, be sure to do this when they’re dry!).
  • Take off your polish.
  • Soak your feet. Add in some white vinegar to clean and tone your toes, tea tree oil to get rid of any stinky bacteria or some Epsom salt to relax and soothe any sore muscles to make it even more spa like!
  • Push back your cuticles.
  • Scrub off dead skin. Use a foot file (like this one that gets over 10k amazing reviews) to really clean up those feet!
  • Use a scrub to exfoliate your hands. (You can use the same one you used for your hands like the Asutra Dead Sea Scrub from Amazon!)
  • Follow up with a foot peel mask! There’s tons of great feet masks like this one for cracked feet from Amazon.
  • Moisturize with a nice foot cream. (I love Aveda’s foot relief moisturizer really similar to their hand relief!)
  • Wipe your nails with polish remover (this gives them a clean slate).
  • Apply your polish (if you’re not using something like Olive and June with the base coat already in it then start with a base coat).
  • Finish with a top coat.
  • Clean up edges.
  • Let dry!

3. Hair Treatment

I’ve never seen a hair treatment at a spa so this is one perk you can do at home! I’ve been loving the MoroccanOil Restorative Hair Mask and use it about once a week.

If you want to try a DIY hair mask here’s a few great options that I found from Good Housekeeping!

  • For dry hair: Honey (1 tsp), egg (1) and apple cider (1 tbsp) mix up and leave on your hair for 30-40 minutes
  • For dull hair: Equal parts honey + apple cider vinegar + coconut oil mix together and leave in for 20 minutes.
  • For hair that won’t grow: Equal parts cinnomon and cocunt oil mix, apply to roots and massage it into your scalp. Let sit for 30-45 minutes.

4. Soak in the tub!

Last but not least, end your time with a nice soak in the tub. Keep those soothing tunes going, dim the lights and get those candles lit and relax.

I like to put a healthy pour of Epsom salt in my bath along with some bubbles (I typically just steal my kids’ Honest bubbles in lavender but you could always get a little fancier with L’Occitane’s relaxing and foaming lavender bath bubbles).

Pick up a bath pillow for even more relaxation and you’re ready for some serious chilling out.

Whether it’s a quick 20 minute soak paired with a face and hair mask or a full day of pampering, it’s so good to take a little time to relax. I hope these simple tips help you with your next spa day at home!

What are some ways that you like to relax?

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Jen is a mom of 3 who loves frozen cookie dough, plants and a generous pour of creamer in her coffee. Her biggest joy is helping others find joy in their life, style and home through tips, tutorials and encouragement. She also runs 2 additional blogs. Feel free to send Jen a message or join the fun on Instagram!

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How to Have a Spa Day at Home
How to Have a Spa Day at Home